Speak and Write Arabic — Volume I · Chapter 4
Family and Friends
Unit I: البِدَايَات — Beginnings
In Chapter 3 you completed the Arabic alphabet, learned to talk about your nationality and origin, and asked basic questions with مِن أَيْن, ما, and هَل. Chapter 4 takes you into your most personal vocabulary: family and friends. You will learn to describe who is in your family, how people are related, and what family members do or study. Along the way you will encounter two important new writing features — hamza and the special letters — and two central grammar systems: sound and broken plurals and the construct state (iḍāfa), which is the primary Arabic way to express possession and association.
By the end of this chapter you will be able to introduce your family in spoken and written Arabic and produce a short written family profile.
Situation
You have just met سَارَة (Sara), a student from Egypt, at a language exchange event. She shows you a photograph on her phone and begins to tell you about her family. You want to understand what she says and then share information about your own family. Listen for names, relationships, and descriptions.
Notice how Sara uses possessive constructs throughout: عَائِلَتِي (my family), أَبِي (my father), أُمِّي (my mother), أَخِي (my brother). These are formed through the Arabic construct state, which you will learn in the Grammar section.
Hamza represents a glottal stop — the brief closure in the throat you hear between the syllables of uh-oh in English. It is a full consonant in Arabic, and its spelling depends on the surrounding vowels.
The Four Hamza Seats
| Position / Seat | Written form | Example | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| On أَلِف (above or below) | أ / إ | أَب / إِخْوَة | father / brothers |
| On وَاو | ؤ | مَسْؤُول | responsible |
| On يَاء (no dots) | ئ | رَئِيس | president, head |
| On the line (بِلا كُرْسِيّ) | ء | جُزْء | part, portion |
Key Rule for This Chapter
When hamza begins a word, it always sits on an أَلِف:
This rule covers most of the hamza you will encounter in family vocabulary.
Common Mistake
Learners often write ا (plain alif) instead of أ or إ with hamza. Plain alif is never used at the beginning of a word when the initial sound is a glottal stop followed by a vowel. The word father is أَب, not اَب.
A separate alif-letter appears on the اِ of the definite article الـ and on several verb and noun beginnings. Unlike regular hamza, this connecting hamza is not pronounced when the word is linked to the word before it in normal speech. It is typically written without a hamza sign above it in everyday writing, but you will see it marked in fully vocalized texts. The article الـ you have been writing since Chapter 2 begins with hamzat al-waṣl.
Tāʾ marbūṭa (ـَة / ة) is a closed تَاء written at the end of nouns and adjectives. It has two functions you need now:
Tāʾ marbūṭa in this chapter
Alif maqṣūra (ى) looks like a يَاء without dots and appears only at the end of words. It is pronounced as a long ā sound. You already know this letter from words like عَلَى (on), إِلَى (to), and the name لَيْلَى. Do not confuse it with يَاء — the presence or absence of dots is the key distinction.
When hamza-above-alif (أ) is followed by a long ā vowel, the two are written together as a single sign: آ (called alif madd or alif with a tilde). You will see it in آسِيَا (Asia) and later in words like آخَر (other). Recognize it as ʾā: a glottal stop followed immediately by a long ā.
| Arabic | Meaning | Gender | Plural | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| عَائِلَة | family | fem. | عَائِلَات | sound fem. pl. |
| أَب / وَالِد | father | masc. | آبَاء / وَالِدُون | أَب broken pl.; وَالِد more formal |
| أُم / وَالِدَة | mother | fem. | أُمَّهَات / وَالِدَات | أُم everyday; وَالِدَة formal |
| أَخ | brother | masc. | إِخْوَة / إِخْوَان | two broken plurals in use |
| أُخْت | sister | fem. | أَخَوَات | sound fem. pl. |
| ابْن / وَلَد | son / boy | masc. | أَبْنَاء / أَوْلَاد | broken plurals |
| بِنْت | daughter / girl | fem. | بَنَات | broken plural |
| جَدّ | grandfather | masc. | أَجْدَاد | broken plural |
| جَدَّة | grandmother | fem. | جَدَّات | sound fem. pl. |
| زَوْج | husband | masc. | أَزْوَاج | broken plural |
| زَوْجَة | wife | fem. | زَوْجَات | sound fem. pl. |
| Arabic | Meaning | Gender | Plural |
|---|---|---|---|
| عَمّ | paternal uncle | masc. | أَعْمَام |
| عَمَّة | paternal aunt | fem. | عَمَّات |
| خَال | maternal uncle | masc. | أَخْوَال |
| خَالَة | maternal aunt | fem. | خَالَات |
| ابْن عَمّ | male cousin (paternal) | masc. | أَبْنَاء عَمّ |
| بِنْت عَمّ | female cousin (paternal) | fem. | بَنَات عَمّ |
Cultural Note
Arabic distinguishes paternal relatives (عَمّ / عَمَّة) from maternal relatives (خَال / خَالَة). This distinction is maintained in many Arabic-speaking communities and has cultural significance for social and family structure. The same word cousin in English covers four separate Arabic words depending on the side of the family and the gender of the cousin.
| Arabic (masc.) | Arabic (fem.) | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| طَبِيب | طَبِيبَة | doctor |
| مُدَرِّس | مُدَرِّسَة | teacher |
| مُهَنْدِس | مُهَنْدِسَة | engineer |
| مُحَامٍ | مُحَامِيَة | lawyer |
| تَاجِر | تَاجِرَة | merchant, businessperson |
| مُوَظَّف | مُوَظَّفَة | employee, office worker |
| طَالِب | طَالِبَة | student |
| Arabic (masc.) | Arabic (fem.) | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| كَبِير | كَبِيرَة | big, old (in age) |
| صَغِير | صَغِيرَة | small, young |
| طَوِيل | طَوِيلَة | tall, long |
| قَصِير | قَصِيرَة | short |
| لَطِيف | لَطِيفَة | kind, pleasant |
| مَشْغُول | مَشْغُولَة | busy |
| مُتَزَوِّج | مُتَزَوِّجَة | married |
Hamza ء is produced by briefly closing and then releasing the glottis — the space between your vocal cords. You make this sound naturally in English at the beginning of a stressed vowel syllable: the gap between "uh" and "oh" in uh-oh, or the start of "Ann" when said with emphasis. In Arabic, hamza is a full consonant that can appear anywhere in a word and must be clearly produced.
Practice the contrast between words with and without the glottal stop:
In ordinary speech, when a word ending in ـَة is said in pause (at the end of a phrase or utterance), the -t is not pronounced. The word ends with a short -a or is even slightly shortened:
This is normal and expected. The -t appears clearly when the word is in a construct phrase (see Grammar below) and is immediately followed by the next word.
Arabic forms plurals in two ways. You will work with both in this chapter.
Sound plurals add a suffix to the singular without changing the internal shape of the word.
Sound Masculine Plural (for people)
Add ـُون (in connected contexts) or ـِين (in some grammatical positions) to the masculine singular:
For now, learn the sound masculine plural suffix as ـُون. You will learn the ـِين alternation in Chapter 9.
Sound Feminine Plural (for people and many other nouns)
Drop the ـَة (if present) and add ـَات:
Broken plurals change the internal structure of the word — vowels shift, letters may be added or dropped, and the resulting form can look very different from the singular. There is no single rule: the plural of each noun must be learned alongside the noun itself.
| Singular | Meaning | Broken Plural | Meaning (pl.) | Pattern |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| أَب | father | آبَاء | fathers | أَفْعَال |
| أَخ | brother | إِخْوَة | brothers | إِفْعَلَة |
| ابْن | son | أَبْنَاء | sons | أَفْعَال |
| بِنْت | daughter | بَنَات | daughters | sound fem. form |
| جَدّ | grandfather | أَجْدَاد | grandfathers | أَفْعَال |
| أُم | mother | أُمَّهَات | mothers | irregular |
Strategy for Broken Plurals
Always learn the plural form when you learn a new noun. The vocabulary tables in this textbook always list the plural. Treating singular and plural as a single unit — not two separate words — is the most reliable approach.
The iḍāfa (construct phrase) is the primary Arabic structure for expressing possession, relationship, and association. It consists of two or more nouns placed next to each other without any article on the first noun and without any word for "of" or "'s".
Structure
[First noun — no article] + [Second noun or pronoun suffix]
The relationship is read as "the [first noun] of [second noun]" or "[second noun]'s [first noun]."
Critical Rule
The first noun in an iḍāfa never takes the definite article الـ. The second noun may or may not be definite. If the second noun has الـ, the whole phrase is considered definite.
When the "second noun" is a personal pronoun, it is expressed as a suffix attached directly to the first noun. These are the possessive suffixes:
| Person | Suffix | Example with أَب | Meaning |
|---|---|---|---|
| my | ـِي | أَبِي | my father |
| your (m. sg.) | ـَكَ | أَبُوكَ | your father |
| your (f. sg.) | ـَكِ | أَبُوكِ | your father |
| his | ـُه / ـَه | أَبُوهُ | his father |
| her | ـَهَا | أَبُوهَا | her father |
| our | ـَنَا | أَبُونَا | our father |
Key Forms for This Chapter
Focus on the first-person form ـِي (my) for now, as it is the most immediately useful for introducing your family.
Note: When nouns ending in ـَة (tāʾ marbūṭa) take the suffix ـِي, the -t of tāʾ marbūṭa reappears: عَائِلَة + ي = عَائِلَتِي. This is the standard behavior of tāʾ marbūṭa in construct position.
A common and very useful pattern for introducing family members uses اسْمُهُ / اسْمُهَا (his/her name is):
You learned adjective agreement in Chapter 2. Apply it now to family descriptions. Remember: the adjective follows the noun and matches it in gender and definiteness.
Exercise 1 — Hamza Recognition
Identify the seat (position) of hamza in each word below. Write: on alif above / on alif below / on wāw / on yāʾ / on the line.
Exercise 2 — Special Letters
Identify whether the underlined letter in each word is: تَاء مَرْبُوطَة, أَلِف مَقْصُورَة, or أَلِف مَدّ. Write the letter type and the approximate pronunciation of the word end.
Exercise 3 — Singular and Plural
Give the plural of each noun. Refer to the vocabulary tables if needed.
Exercise 4 — Building Construct Phrases
Combine the two items to form an iḍāfa phrase and translate it into English.
Example: اسم + الطَّالِب → اسمُ الطَّالِب — the student's name
Exercise 5 — Possessive Suffixes
Attach the suffix ـِي (my) to each noun to form the possessive. Write the complete word.
Example: اسم + ي → اسْمِي
Exercise 6 — Family Descriptions
Write a sentence about each family member below following the model. Use adjectives and profession vocabulary from the chapter.
Model: أُمِّي مُدَرِّسَةٌ لَطِيفَة. — My mother is a kind teacher.
Read the passage below aloud or have a study partner read it to you. Then answer the questions in Arabic.
أَنَا اسْمِي تَارِق. أَنَا مِن الأُرْدُنّ. عَائِلَتِي كَبِيرَة. أَبِي اسْمُهُ مَاهِر، وَهُوَ مُهَنْدِس. أُمِّي اسْمُهَا رِيم، وَهِيَ مُدَرِّسَة. عِنْدِي أَخٌ وَاحِدٌ وَأُخْتَانِ. أَخِي اسْمُهُ عُمَر. أُخْتَايَ اسْمَاهُمَا هِنْد وَدِيمَة. جَدِّي وَجَدَّتِي يَسْكُنَانِ فِي عَمَّان.
Listening script note for instructors/partners: Read the passage at a moderate pace with clear pauses between sentences. Repeat it twice if needed.
Comprehension Questions
Answer in Arabic using full sentences where possible.
A partner reads one word from each pair below. Circle the word you hear. If studying alone, cover the right column and read each pair, then uncover to check.
| Pair A | Pair B |
|---|---|
| أَب | إِخْوَة |
| أُم | آبَاء |
| أَخ | أَبْنَاء |
Note: Both items in each row begin with hamza. The exercise trains your ear to distinguish different hamza vowels (fatḥa, kasra, ḍamma, madd).
Read each item aloud, paying close attention to hamza and the final letters.
Start with the model sentence. Replace the underlined word with each item in the list and say the new sentence aloud.
Model: أَبِي مُهَنْدِس. — My father is an engineer.
Substitutions: طَبِيب / مُدَرِّس / مُحَامٍ / مُوَظَّف / تَاجِر
Then repeat with: أُمِّي مُدَرِّسَة. — using the correct feminine forms.
Ask a partner these questions and take notes on their answers. Reverse roles.
For independent study: Answer all five questions about yourself in writing, then record yourself speaking the answers.
Look at a photo of your own family (or imagine one). Introduce each visible person using the pattern:
Try to describe at least four people. Use adjectives and professions from the chapter.
Read the following profile carefully. Use the comprehension tasks that follow.
اسْمِي نُورَة المَنْصُورِي. أَنَا مِن الإِمَارَات. أَسْكُنُ فِي أَبُو ظَبْي مَعَ عَائِلَتِي.
عَائِلَتِي كَبِيرَة. أَبِي اسْمُهُ خَالِد. هُوَ مُهَنْدِس مَشْغُول. أُمِّي اسْمُهَا فَاطِمَة. هِيَ مُدَرِّسَةٌ لَطِيفَة.
عِنْدِي ثَلَاثَةُ إِخْوَة وَأُخْتٌ وَاحِدَة. إِخْوَتِي أَكْبَرُ مِنِّي. أَكْبَرُ أَخٍ عِنْدِي اسْمُهُ سَعِيد، وَهُوَ طَالِبٌ فِي جَامِعَة أَبُو ظَبْي. أُخْتِي الصَّغِيرَة اسْمُهَا شَيْخَة، وَهِيَ طَالِبَة أَيْضًا.
جَدِّي وَجَدَّتِي يَسْكُنَانِ فِي دُبَي. جَدِّي طَبِيبٌ مُتَقَاعِد. جَدَّتِي رَبَّةُ بَيْت.
Vocabulary support
أَسْكُنُ — I live | مَعَ — with | ثَلَاثَة — three | أَكْبَرُ مِنِّي — older than me | جَامِعَة — university | أَيْضًا — also | مُتَقَاعِد — retired | رَبَّةُ بَيْت — homemaker
These words appear as receptive support only. You are not required to produce them actively in this chapter.
Comprehension Tasks
Re-read Noura's profile and underline every iḍāfa phrase you can identify (two-noun constructs or noun + pronoun suffix). Compare your list with the answer key.
Iḍāfa phrases in the text include (among others):
Copy each of the following words three times, paying careful attention to hamza position and the shape of tāʾ marbūṭa and alif maqṣūra.
Exercise 7 — Sentence Builder
Write a complete Arabic sentence for each prompt. Use vocabulary and structures from this chapter.
Other accurate and natural answers are correct. Ask a teacher or native speaker to review open-ended answers.
Task
Write a paragraph of 5–7 sentences introducing your family. Use the following structure as a guide:
Model Paragraph (adapt for yourself)
Self-Check Checklist
Across Arabic-speaking communities — from Morocco to the Gulf, from the Levant to Sudan — family identity plays a significant role in social interaction. A person's family name, region of origin, and tribal or clan affiliation are often woven into introductions and considered important context.
In many Arabic-speaking contexts, asking about someone's family early in a conversation is considered warm and interested rather than intrusive. Questions like مِن أَيْنَ عَائِلَتُكَ؟ (Where is your family from?) or عِنْدَكَ إِخْوَة؟ (Do you have siblings?) often appear naturally after an initial greeting.
In traditional Arabic naming, a person's full name can include a chain of patronymics: given name — father's name — grandfather's name — family name. You may encounter names like مُحَمَّد بن إِبْرَاهِيم البَلَوِي. In everyday use, people typically use a shorter form. The patterns vary by country and community.
In many Arabic-speaking contexts, family terms are also used as respectful forms of address beyond the biological family. عَمّ and عَمَّة may be used to address an older man or woman who is not a biological uncle or aunt. أُخْت and أَخ are used among acquaintances and even strangers in some communities as a sign of solidarity and warmth. Context and regional norms vary considerably.
Language Note
When Arabic speakers say بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيم or shorter phrases like إِن شَاء اللَّه in family conversations, these are social and cultural expressions whose frequency and significance vary among individuals, regions, and religious backgrounds. They are formulaic expressions with wide social use and should not be interpreted as exclusively religious statements in every context. You will encounter them as receptive cultural input throughout the series.
Mistake 1 — Adding الـ to the first noun of an iḍāfa
The first noun in a construct phrase never takes the definite article.
Mistake 2 — Writing alif instead of hamza-on-alif
Plain alif without hamza is never used when the word begins with a glottal stop + vowel.
Mistake 3 — Forgetting tāʾ marbūṭa before pronoun suffixes
The -t- of tāʾ marbūṭa reappears when a suffix is attached.
Mistake 4 — Using a sound plural when the noun has a broken plural
Not all Arabic nouns form their plural with a simple suffix. Check the vocabulary table for each noun's actual plural form.
Mistake 5 — Adjective gender mismatch
The adjective must match the gender of the noun or pronoun it describes. أُم is feminine; the adjective takes the feminine ـَة suffix.
| Feature | What You Learned |
|---|---|
| همزة | 4 seats: on alif (above/below), on wāw, on yāʾ, on the line |
| تَاء مَرْبُوطَة | Feminine ending; pronounced -a in pause; becomes -at- in construct or before suffix |
| أَلِف مَقْصُورَة | Final long ā written as dotless yāʾ |
| أَلِف مَدّ | Hamza + long ā written as آ |
| System | Key Point |
|---|---|
| Sound masc. plural | Add ـُون to masculine singular (people) |
| Sound fem. plural | Replace ـَة with ـَات |
| Broken plurals | Internal vowel change; must be learned with each noun |
| Iḍāfa (construct) | [Noun, no article] + [noun/suffix] = possessive/association |
| Possessive suffix ـِي | Attach directly to noun; tāʾ marbūṭa reappears before it |
| Adjective agreement | Adjective follows noun and matches gender |
Immediate family (11 terms), extended family (6 terms), professions (7 pairs), descriptive adjectives (7 pairs).
Review Exercise A — Comprehensive Fill-in
Fill in the blank with the correct Arabic word.
Review Exercise B — Error Correction
Find and correct the error in each sentence.
Chapter 4 Performance Task — Family Profile Card
Produce a written family profile card of 6–8 sentences in Arabic. Your profile must include:
After writing, read your profile aloud. Aim for clear pronunciation of hamza and tāʾ marbūṭa.
Present your family profile orally to a partner, responding to at least two questions they ask about your family.
| Criterion | Strong | Developing | Needs review |
|---|---|---|---|
| Hamza spelling | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| Tāʾ marbūṭa / alif maqṣūra | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| Iḍāfa construction (no article on first noun) | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| Possessive suffixes | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| Plural forms | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| Adjective gender agreement | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
| Overall clarity and completeness | ☐ | ☐ | ☐ |
Chapter 5: مُرَاجَعَة ١ — لِنَتَعَارَفْ is the Unit I Assessment. You will bring together everything from Chapters 1–4 — greetings, identity, origin, family, script, pronouns, nominative sentences, and iḍāfa — to complete an introductory interaction and write a full personal profile. No major new grammar system will be introduced. Use the week before Chapter 5 to review your vocabulary lists, reread your writing from each chapter, and practice speaking all four chapter dialogues.